What do you do when your child come home and tell you they do not want to go back to school because they are being picked on, how do you handle this type of situation?

In the media you are hearing a lot about this new trend that is going around BULLYING! For some reason this idea of being the bully is outrageous and it is killing our children not only in the flesh but in the spirit.
Bullying is not only in the physical place like school it is also on the internet and text messaging which is called CYBERBULLYING.
How do you prevent your child from being the victim and if they happen to become the victim how do you handle this situation?
There are a lot of web sites out there with their answers to this question but the true answer is with Christ! The bible has the answers to all life questions but you just have to gain a relationship with Christ and to do this is to read the bible and apply it to your life.
There are statistics that show how bad this cyberbullying has gone below you will find examples and the website for this information.
How Common Is Cyberbullying?
Research studies have produced different answers to this question. Rates of cyberbullying vary depending on the definition of cyberbullying that is used, the ages and characteristics of children surveyed, and the time frame involved (Kowalski & Limber, under review).
- In a Cox Communications (2009) survey 13-18 year-olds were asked how often they had ever been involved in cyberbullying.
- 15% said they had been cyberbullied online
- 10% had been cyberbullied by cell phone
- 7% said they had cyberbullied another person online
- 5% had cyberbullied another person by cell phone
- A study by Fight Crime: Invest in Kids (2006) investigated how often children (6-11 year-olds) and teens (12-17-year-olds) had been cyberbullied during the previous year. One-third of teens and one-sixth of the children reported that someone said threatening or embarrassing things about them online.
- In a survey of middle school students, Hinduja and Patchin (2009) found that 9% had been cyberbullied in the last 30 days, and 17% had been cyberbullied during their lifetime; 8% had cyberbullied others in the last 30 days and 18% had done so during their lifetime.
- In a study by Kowalski and Limber (2007) with students in grades 6-8, 18% said they had been cyberbullied at least once in the last couple of months and 6% said it had happened two or more times; 11% had cyberbullied others at least once in the last couple of months, and 2% said they had done it two or more times.
http://www.stopbullyingnow.hrsa.gov/adults/cyber-bullying.aspx
Well let’s get back to biblical teaching on bullying.
Leviticus 19:18 (King James Version)
Thou shalt not avenge, nor bear any grudge against the children of thy people, but thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself: I am the LORD.
Romans 12:19-20 (King James Version)
19Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.
20Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head.
2 Timothy 1:7 (King James Version)
7For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.
Psalm 18:3 (King James Version)
3I will call upon the LORD, who is worthy to be praised: so shall I be saved from mine enemies.
1 John 3:15 (King James Version)
15Whosoever hateth his brother is a murderer: and ye know that no murderer hath eternal life abiding in him.
It may seem like this bullying will never end but with Christ all things are possible. Just keep your mind on him and do as Jesus would do.
May the blessings and salvation of the Lord rain upon you in Jesus name. Amen!